Specific Techniques for MEETING and APPROACHING WOMEN

The Time Constraint Technique is perhaps one of the easiest approach methods to implement when it comes to meeting women. As we all know, one of the hardest things to do in dating is to simply approach an attractive woman. You’re nervous - she is wary….but what if you had a way to put her at ease right off the bat? Most men do not realize there is a very simple way to approach women that does this.

Well, I have heard a lot of tips on approaching women, and this one is one of my favorite ways to meet women especially because it is so simple. What dating skills will you need to do this effectively? Well - the ability to look at a watch or clock. And, of course….wait - that’s it!

The Time Constraint begins with a little body language. How do you act when you are in a hurry, or just “stopping to interject a comment”? Your eye contact will be direct, your movements sharp and quick, your demeanor full of confidence because YOU know you are just popping off a comment or something and then moving on. Nothing matters, nothing rests on the outcome.

So you see an attractive woman you want to approach. You are not desperate. You are not looking for ANYTHING from this girl - not a kiss, not a phone number, nothing except to pop by for a sec, say hi, introduce yourself and MOVE ON. Maybe you are going to give her some quick tips on which bartender is the best or what restaurant has the best food at 2 am because you heard her mention blah blah blah. Get the gist?

But before you say ANYTHING to her, you are going to tell her, “Look, I’ve only got a sec, but….” or “Hey, I only have a minute because my friend is waiting on me, but…” and THEN you give her your non-threatening opener or whatever piece of information you have gathered would be useful to her.

Why does this work? This works because when you tell her you only have a moment, you are putting her at ease immediately. You are saying, without the words, hey, I am only “dropping by” to chat for moment, not to hit on you, and then, **poof** I will be gone. So - her guard goes down.

The trick is, though, you have to SAY it at the beginning of the approach, and then, you have to LEAVE like you said you would. I know that sounds like insanity, I mean, once you get on top, you should stay on top, right? No, actually. One of the secrets of creating and maintaining attraction is to be UNAVAILABLE. Walk away! Go talk to someone else, disappear for a while. Then later, re-initiate contact with this girl. By then, she will be ready for you and your approach will have much less chance of rejection.

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