MEETING and APPROACHING WOMEN

Finding love with a foreign bride or correspondence partner is becoming more and more popular. The advent of the internet, free IM, chat, video messaging and many more modern conveniences makes this a much more comfortable and plausible avenue for many single men. However, there are some safety tips that any online date - whether your date is foreign OR local - should follow. Here is a lit of some suggestions we have for you to make your search for the perfect partner safe and hassle free.

1. NEVER Send Money!!! Just like any situation, there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The point of your correspondence with a Russian Woman or any other ladies is to develop a special relationship with a foreign woman, not to purchase one. You may have contact with women who will ask you for money for one reason or another. Ladies who are looking for a true

relationship WILL NOT ASK YOU FOR MONEY. If you are asked for money it should immediately set off alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. Of course, there ARE instances where there may be a valid reason to send money to someone with whom you have been corresponding for some time. In that instance it is recommended that you send it via wire (Western Union).

2. Send her the very best photo of yourself that you can take. Make sure your photograph is clear, recent and truthful. Take a picture showing you doing something you like to do. A good and simple head shot (think of your old school photos) is also great, that will show her what you really look like, smiling, of course! My advice - get a photo done by a professional, it will be worth it.

3. Honesty is the best policy . If you lie about yourself, what you look like, what you do, she will find out, and you can imagine how disappointed in you she will be. Most of these women are highly educated and they are looking for sincere, honest men who will treat them with love and respect, please don't make the mistake of thinking that they are ignorant or that you can treat them badly, after all, this is why they do not want to marry many of the men from their own country. Treat her like a princess, and she will become your princess.

4. Remember when writing your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That doesn't mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her. Don’t try to impress her with your vocabulary, instead, be clear, concise and avoid using idioms.

5. Write to as many girls as possible. By writing many women you greatly increase your chances of success!!! The more attractive a woman, the more letters she will receive so when writing to these women it is especially important to write to as many as possible

6. This information is there for a reason, you will be wasting your time as well as the lady's by responding to a woman whom you know you will not be compatible with.

7. Write in Russian if your recipient has difficulty translating English. Its important letters is fully understood, so if there's any doubt as to the English proficiency of the recipient, have the letter translated before sending.

8. We suggest that you register a separate email account (we recommend an account from your local ISP, because Hotmail, Yahoo and many of the other free accounts have so many spam blocking and black listing policies that it is difficult to get mail you WANT sometimes)) for this campaign, so you will be able to track the results, and also close it down when you have found your one and only. Any advertising campaign brings plenty of junk mail, and publishing your real email address is unwise.

9. Try to keep the initial letter fast-paced. You certainly don't want to be discussing things like marriage and what your children might look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally talk about on a first date.

10. Make sure you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your first letter. People like to know that others are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions about her she will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you immediately.

If you want to get a woman's attention make your letter in depth and interesting! Tell her about yourself and where you live, what you like to do for fun, your goals and your ambitions, and especially tell her what you are looking for in a marriage partner, but most of all make it serious, or funny, or romantic. Don't make it dull or sound like a form letter, although for practicality sake there is no harm in writing this once and saving it for the future. Women like to know lots of details so try to describe things in a romantic way so she can almost see and feel what it is that you are describing.

11. You may find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from making a mistake. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that culture.

12. Here are some topics for use during telephone conversations. Ask everything about her and forget about yourself. Get as much info as possible.

What is your typical day like?
Where is your apartment?
Do you live with your parents?
Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Can you talk privately?
What is your idea of life in (Your country)?
Do you want children?
Do you want any more children?
If it's not a secret, how old are you?
Did you go to the university?
What is your field of study?
Are you religious?
Do you like cats?
What does a girl wear when meeting her future fiancée for the first time?
How should the man dress?

13. Be prepared to meet your ladies. Unless you are willing to make the journey to meet your chosen lady, there is no real point in writing to a lady, so consider this when you start writing to her. Letter writing is fine, up to a point, until you've got to know her. At some point you have to meet her and decide, or someone else will do it for you and you will have lost her.

14. Don't delay your visit to see her personally. The average time between beginning of e-mail exchanging and the visit to see a lady is about 6 months. Remember that she joined a dating service, not a pen pal club. One visit is worth hundreds of letters.

15. DON’T send pictures of your houses, cars or boats on the first stages of your correspondence – it will look like you are trying to buy a woman and not want her to fall in love with you for who you are.

16. DON’T ask woman about sex priorities and fantasies in the first letter. Maybe it’s OK to discuss it on later stage, but it’s not common in Russia to open your heart and thoughts to a stranger at once.

17. Russian names use unlike many others abbreviations, or “pet names”.
When two people are in love, usually they are calling each other with tender and loving names.
In the following table we have placed the most common Russian names and their abbreviations and “pet names”.
If you are in correspondence with Russian woman and want to show her a special attention – try to call her “pet name” and We bet she would be surprised and pleased.

18. Write women who will fit into your lifestyle. If you live in the country, far away from larger cities avoid writing to the ladies who list their hobbies as theater, fashions, etc. Instead write to ones who enjoy nature, animals, may be gardening & outdoor activities.

19. The last and probably most important tip of all is be patient. This is an important process and the results of the decision that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before committing to that special one. This could be one of the most important decisions that you will ever make, so please be patient, be thorough, and most of all, enjoy the process

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